PLEASE HELP...life changing decision
11-01-2004, 01:32 AM
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I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel where the body meets the bodykit.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel where the body meets the bodykit.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
11-01-2004, 02:00 AM
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I am not sure if she is cheating... But, what I wonder about people that do this is, if they don't want to be with someone why don't they break it off? Why stay in a relationship and cheat? If you don't like it break it off.
If you are this concerned over it. I would just nicely approach your GF about it. Just explain to her that you think all these things seem odd. And you are just asking because you love her very much and want to know what is going on etc... If she truly loves you she will not get mad by you nicely asking her. If she has a hissy fit and flies off the handle about this as well then I say something is probably going on.
Hope everything works out for you though!
If you are this concerned over it. I would just nicely approach your GF about it. Just explain to her that you think all these things seem odd. And you are just asking because you love her very much and want to know what is going on etc... If she truly loves you she will not get mad by you nicely asking her. If she has a hissy fit and flies off the handle about this as well then I say something is probably going on.
Hope everything works out for you though!
